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Showing posts with label Lahore Memoirs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lahore Memoirs. Show all posts

Thursday, April 9, 2020

When Indians Gathered To Offer Tribute To A Pakistani

By Ravi Nitesh3:58 PMaaghaz e dosti, AmanDosti, amankiasha, asma jahangir, bharatpakistandosti, India Pakistan, Lahore Memoirs, Mubashir Hasan, pakistan
Published : https://nayadaur.tv/2020/04/when-indians-gathered-to-offer-tribute-to-a-pakistani/ 
By: Ravi Nitesh

It is rare that Indians and Pakistanis consider someone as their own equally, but recently, Dr. Mubashir Hasan’s demise has brought this rare gesture where not only Pakistanis but even Indians too joined to offer him tribute.
Dr. Hasan was born in Panipat (Haryana, India) in 1922 and later migrated to Pakistan where he rose as an eminent political leader being a founding member of PPP and later Finance Minister in Govt. of Pakistan. He advocated peace and regional coordination and supported Indo-Pak Peace by heart.



When the people in Panipat heard the news of his demise, many who knew him became sad. Hali Panipati Trust (A local trust named upon renowned poet Altaf Hussain Hali) organized a memorial meeting to offer tribute and many joined in. Many other Indian progressive groups, individuals, and journalists wrote about him on social media and in newspapers. Pakistan India Peoples’ Forum for Peace and Democracy (PIPFPD) issued a statement as a tribute to him. It looked like Dr. Hasan made people united by hearts even after his death. This tribute and memorial meeting was widely covered by local media. 

I never met him personally, but knew him as a stalwart through many friends who met him. Dr. Syeda Hameed (Syeda aapa) – a well known activist who also authored political biography of former Pakistani PM Zulfikar Ali Bhutto with title ‘Born to be hanged’ – also talked about him many times when I met her. She told about how she travelled to Lahore and met him several times.

The connection of Dr. Hasan with Panipat played an important role as people in Panipat still remembered the year 1997 (50 years after partition), when a 23 member Pakistani delegation reached India including Dr. Mubashir. They were hosted in Panipat by Dr. Nirmala Deshpande and their colleagues like Dr. Syeda Hameed and Ram Mohan Rai. This visit is still afresh in minds of people in Panipat who met the delegation members that time. Efforts of Dr. Nirmala Deshpande in organising such delegation visits were commendable and she motivated many activists to spread the message of peace among common people.
During their stay in Panipat, hosts in India arranged stay of Dr. Mubashir in the same house that he had lived once but left during partition. Mr. Rai described how Dr. Mubashir remembered names of many streets in Panipat even after so many years. He used to walk in old streets early morning and sometimes even knocked doors of houses that he knew.

He met with old friends and said ‘O yaara, kitthe ho? Twada purana yaar aaya hai’ (dear friends, where are you- your old friend is here). After these utterances, he and his friends would become emotional.

He was also full of humour and would extend an on spot reply. During another visit to Panipat in year 2008 on the occasion of Hali Mela, the then Chief Minister of Haryana and the then Vice President of India Dr. Hamid Ansari were on stage. Dr. Mubashir Hasan spoke that he is proud upon being a Panipati to which the then CM Hudda replied, ‘you are Panipati only’ and Dr. Hasan immediately responded, ‘then give me citizenship of Panipat’ while everyone was cheered up.

Very few people receive such ‘across the border’ respect. I had witnessed it also when Asma Jahangir left us and we all had gathered in Delhi on the call of PIPFPD. Similarly, when Kuldeep Nayar left the world, I read how people in Pakistan poured their tribute. People like Khushwant Singh and Kuldeep Nayar also got respect of having their ashes flown on the other side of border after their death. Dr. Nirmala Deshpande’s death brought people from many countries together and even her ashes were flown to rivers in South Asian countries. These are the real gestures these people received for their identity of being human first and their vocal speaking of such, irrespective of their other identities. Many amongst such people were those who had history on the other side of border.

Now after 72 years of partition, we are losing the generation who had kept memories and attached with other side while evoking emotions. During these seven decades, unfortunately, many events led us towards a poisonous atmosphere where it has become seditious to love the other side. But it doesn’t mean that everything ended as still many people are advocating for unity of hearts through demolition of walls of hatred. I remember that how during our Aaghaz-e-Dosti Yatra from Delhi to Wagah, even rural women came on road and extended support for peace and Aaghaz-e-Dosti. When asked why they supported, their reply was simple: ‘Because there is nothing in war and conflicts. We need proper food and living and not bloodshed. These conflicts should end.’

I know that most of the villages in Pakistan and India demand this and they deserve it too. Our governments must look prospects of peace in these voices to pave a way for a peaceful future.


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Saturday, June 21, 2014

Lahore Memoirs

By Ravi Nitesh3:31 AMINDIBLOGGER, Indo Pak, Lahore Memoirs, Zindagi
It was a time when Toba Tek Singh (A character of Manto's story) came alive within me. I and Rajeshwar Ojha (a friend) cried, "we are neither in India, nor in Pakistan". 

Yes, it was that time during my journey to Pakistan when I was crossing Wagah border on foot and was standing between the gates of Pakistan and India.

I got the opportunity of being one in a ten member Indian delegation to participate in a convention at Lahore on Relaxed Visa. This delegation included the name of film maker Mahesh Bhatt as well but he was not able to make it. It also included a Magsasay awardee Dr Sandeep Pandey. Nasir bhai, Sirish Agarwal, Shehla Ghanim, Anil Mishra and Rajeshwar Ojha as other members of the delegation.

Pic: Left to Right: Rajeshwar Ojha, Sirish Agarwal, Anil Mishra, Indian Border Guard, Ravi Nitesh

With the security checking and immigration that happened on both sides of border, we reached at the waiting lounge on the Pakistan side. Here I had my first communication. First and an everlasting one…

'Please keep it with you as you may need it on the way as well,' remarked the person at the immigration center and handed over a water bottle to me. It was his additional courtesy after providing me a glass of cold water on my demand. I did not expect such generous behavior from security personals ever. 

The way from immigration of Wagah to Lahore was quite similar to any Indian highway where villages are situated alongside roads. Beautifully decorated trucks were also there. A beautiful canal met with us while entering in Lahore and we moved parallel with it. All the way, our host, Ms. Saeeda Diep ji told us many things about Lahore, on the other hand, our Indian friend Anil started reading urdu banners and hoardings.

On reaching hotel, we got to know that there was a shutdown strike in Pakistan and so we were told to stay in the hotel only but we enjoyed our hotel stay as well. We found that almost all Indian channels were broadcasted on TV, but we preferred to watch the Pakistani TV channels. After few hours watching television, I started talking to the room service person in general to know his perspective. This was the second encounter wherein a Pakistani, a young waiter told me that how much he is passionate to visit India, especially for Taj Mahal. He told me that his native home is at approx 6 hours distance from here, but in spite of being a 3 hour distance to Amritsar, he can't cross the Wagah. 

The convention was on next day, but we all made a call to Aapa (we fondly called Ms. Saeeda Diep "Aapa") that we would also like to help in organizing convention, as a host and not be just a guest. In the evening, we were in a ball room of a hotel where the conference was planned. 

We started doing arrangements, Hindustanis and Pakistanis were getting mixed in decorating the hall, some were pasting the posters, others were decorating table linings with Indo-pak flags, another group was holding a string for hanging peace messages beautifully calligraphed on piece of clothes. 


Pic: Messages of Peace in string and volunteers (Indians and Pakistanis) at work



During all this work, we started working with different people with whom we were not introduced first and so they were unknown about our identity as Indian. Until the time they thought that we are Pakistanis, we were working fine, but during the work, we talked as well and when they came to know the place where we hailed from, they were visible shaken and started feeling guilty. They said that we handed over the work to you while you are our guest. This togetherness of working made many of us known to each other. After the work, we returned to hotel late night, dropped by local friends who volunteered for the conference. At night, roads were similarly silent and beautiful as we have in India.

Pic: Raza Khan, A Pakistani volunteer during decoration of Indian and Pakistani flags 


The morning experience for my fellow Indian friends was amazing. They narrated that in the morning they went to a tea stall near the hotel and had tea. There, they inquired about some nearby place to visit and got an offer from a taxi driver to show them a good place within 15 minutes. They visited places like Badshahi Mosque and on return, the taxi driver did not accept even a penny with saying that “you are an Indian and so our guest, i cannot take anything”.  


On the day of conference, we welcomed all participants, made more friends and came to know about their work. We also witnessed the diversity and modernity of Pakistan through people. Movaizz, Rohulla, Kaleem, Taimur and Shahid were few of them. Shahid Pasha was so passionate about Bollywood that he remembered many celebrity’s parental place in Pakistan and he claimed to have more than twenty five thousands Indian songs in his personal collection. The conference itself was a full phase of learning and understanding. We heard historians, educationists, activists and politicians. After the conference, we had a long chit chat with Ashraf, Atiqua and Raza over society and politics and developed a bond.

The evening was filled with Liberty chowk market, where we enjoyed the famous Bundu Khan's kabab. During shopping in the market, my local friend Ovais told a shopkeeper that I came from outside, and he replied that yes, he can understand that I came from Karachi. It was another thing that made me felt that really we are not only same by heart, but even by look. 

Pic: Liberty market, Lahore, Pakistan

I also enjoyed visiting Badshahi Mosque, Ravi river and Tomb of Allama Iqbal. I found example of communal harmony when I first witnessed Gurudwara before the Badshahi Mosque. 

Last day, before our departure, there was a lunch with volunteers and hosts where we all enjoyed the vegetarian food in Pakistan. The certificate that had to be given to volunteers was also written by me. I saw many paintings, cards, posters in the room. All of these paintings were crying to let them meet with neighbors, to be set free like birds. I was feeling the same, praying the same for me.

Pic: Hindustani and pakistani together during get together before departure from Lahore

The departure was very emotional. None of us wanted to go back so soon as we did not know that when will we meet again. 


There were only tears in our eyes, no words to speak. Aapa was waving her hands till the time we went away and crossed the border again.


It is one of the best experiences that I have had in my life. This experience has changed me, my thinking and has only encouraged me more to work to improve the relations, to make people realise that people on both sides are same. People on both sides desire for peace and friendship. I am happy that Zindagi Channel will be able to contribute to this by bringing in stories from Pakistan. It will be able to become a medium for people to realise for themselves that how similar our lives are. I am sure that Zindagi Channel will not only present stories but through them, will be able to weave new ones.

Hum dono hi mulqon me, ek doosre ke liye mohabbat hai,
hum umeed karte hain, ki yeh mohabbat badhtee rahegi, fizaon me ghulti rahegi..
jaise jaise..Zindagi ki kahani chaltee rahegi...........

(This post is written for Zindagi Indiblogger Meet #JodeyDilonKo)

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